I am living in Karachi, it has been almost 12 years past that I am working as Accountant in different organizations of the private sector after completion of my B.Com and MBA afterwards (evening program of Preston University). In all these years that I've spend with these medium & large scale organisations I have observed that the behavior of the owners and upper management towards the employee is quite insulting, bosses of these organization are hanged up badly in business affairs that they forget the official manners and etiquettes, even some time I experienced their bad behaviour with the female workers, they do not realize that they are speaking with a lady. My worst experience was the textile industry of Korangi and SITE where a large number of women and girls are working in different units on different posts from a range checker to a senior unit in-charge or manager, the women of textile industry have daily faced many challenges during her working time including malicious staring, unrelated business meetings, hooting and other types of verbal and visual harassments.
It will be not so much remarkable if the man doing all these types of unethical acts are illiterate or unqualified but the bad society impact also affected qualified and sensible man, who could not keep them or isolate them from all these vulgarities.
This issue needs serious attention, I know there are good organizations too where women feel them quite secure and worked independently with confidence, I never include all industrial areas or sector but most of them are affected with this serious problem as because female of this side already involved in other problems in there houses so that they make the decision to leave the home for running there kitchens.
Few problems that I observed and listen from my different female co-workers are as under;
1. I have two brothers, one is engaged with a political party and the other one is a drug addicted and not take interest in home activities.
2. My husband passed away and I have to see the home.
3. We are 2 sisters my father's legs was lost in an accident, I am the elder one my younger sister is a student so I have to choose to see the home for running my kitchen, my mom handle my father whole day.
I you are a working person, man and reading these lines and feel that what are you doing will be so much disturbing for a woman then kindly make some changer in your life and before saying anything to a women think for a while that there are women in your own home too.
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Saturday, May 28, 2011
Friday, October 22, 2010
Successful Experiment for Bed Bugs Control
I am facing bed bugs problem in my whole house, its more or less 5 to 6 years past for living in this trouble, I almost used each type of bed bugs controlling method but every thing is failed, yesterday when after taking bath I was drying my hair with hair dryer I saw a bug crawling upon dressing table right in front of my eyes I unintentionally turn the direction of my dryer towards the bug and what happened that it was not less then a shock for me the bug had burned through the hot air of the dryer I was examining the bug astonishingly then my wife entered in room and watched me by standing on my back, what are you doing? She asked the question, I told her the whole story she did not believe then I through the hot air of dryer again upon the lower side of my bed where a bunch of bed bugs resting in a micro whole, some of them either ran in hurry and rest of them roasted like a chicken, I tried further in my other rooms one by one and got the same result.
Its not less than a miracle said by my wife after suffering a long time with this miserable creature, what else it remain? We tried DDT, kerosene oil, hot water treatment bla, bla, bla, and a single short of hair dryer solve our problem in no time.
One more technique that we use to overcome from bed bugs is the use of carton tape or transparent scotch tape this protect us a long time from bugs, a second successful technique was either wash or dip the bed sheets and pillow cover in washing powder of any type in the mid hours of night when bugs moving freely outside from there wholes in search of food (that is your blood) but the most successful technique is the use of hair dryer or hot gun because it permanently vanish this creature from your home if bed bugs are not coming from out side your home.
Thanks God! at last we could sleep easily & freely at night after years without bed bugs.
Its not less than a miracle said by my wife after suffering a long time with this miserable creature, what else it remain? We tried DDT, kerosene oil, hot water treatment bla, bla, bla, and a single short of hair dryer solve our problem in no time.
One more technique that we use to overcome from bed bugs is the use of carton tape or transparent scotch tape this protect us a long time from bugs, a second successful technique was either wash or dip the bed sheets and pillow cover in washing powder of any type in the mid hours of night when bugs moving freely outside from there wholes in search of food (that is your blood) but the most successful technique is the use of hair dryer or hot gun because it permanently vanish this creature from your home if bed bugs are not coming from out side your home.
Thanks God! at last we could sleep easily & freely at night after years without bed bugs.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Think About It!
One of my friend (Dr. Fiaq Shah) send this beautiful Ahadiths of our beloved prophet Hazrat Muhammad (SAW) and Dr Faiq through a message at the end that forward this message to all your friends, so I am gonna do what I can do best, this blog is my powerful tool or medium to communicate with the world
The Holy Prophet (SAW) Said:
1) Four things that make your body sick:-
a)Excessive talking
b)Excessive sleeping
c)Excessive eating and
d)Excessive meeting/outing with people
2) Four things that destroys the body:-
a)Worrying
b)Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
c)Hunger
d)Sleeping late at night
3) Four things that make the face looking dull and haggard:-
a)Lying
b)Being disrespectful/impudent (knowingly)
c) Baseless arguements
d)Excessive immorality (committing sins without fear)
4) Four things that make the face glow and shine:-
a) Piety
b) Loyalty
c) Generosity and kindness
d)Helpful to others without being asked
5) Four things make the Rizqi (Sustenance) stop:-
a) Sleeping till late in the morning (from Fajr to sunrise)
b) Not Performing Fardhu or Irregular in Prayers
c) Laziness/Idleness
d) Treachery/Dishonesty
6) Four things that bring/increase the Rizqi:-
a) Staying up in the night in prayers
b) Excessive Repentance
c) Regular Charity
d) Zikr (Remembrance of Allah)
The Holy Prophet (SAW), also said to communicate to others even if it is just One Verse (Ayaah), for this one verse will stand out on the Day of Judgment for intercession.
Allah Hu Alam.
The Holy Prophet (SAW) said,
" Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even if you are reading the Quran.
The person who talks during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalima E Shahada on his/her death bed".
............so be careful, do not to make this mistake!!!
Please pass this message to all Muslims...
**READ THIS DU ' A FOR BETTER LIFE**
Allahumma- inni- ala- Zikr-ika -wa Shuk-rika wa husni-Ibaadatik....Ameen.
A very powerful Du ' a has been sent to you.
Imagine 1000 persons read it
just because of you..................Jazakallah.
ONLY you will seek goodness from
Allah SWT.
Cell phone vs Quran
Ever wonder what would happen if we treated our Quran like we treat
our cell phone?
What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we flipped through it several time a day?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to kids as gifts?
What if we used it when we traveled?
What if we used it in case of emergency?
This is something to make you go....hmm...where is my Quran?
Oh, and one more thing.
Unlike our cell phone, we don't have to worry about our Quran being
Disconnected
Makes you stop and think 'where are my priorities? And no dropped calls!
P.S. DO WHAT YOU THINK GOD WOULD WANT YOU TO DO WITH THIS EMAIL
Trust in the Lord and *ASAP (Always Say A Prayer)
If you are one of the 7% who will stand up for Him, forward this.
93% of people won't forward this.
The Holy Prophet (SAW) Said:
1) Four things that make your body sick:-
a)Excessive talking
b)Excessive sleeping
c)Excessive eating and
d)Excessive meeting/outing with people
2) Four things that destroys the body:-
a)Worrying
b)Sorrow (Sadness/Grief)
c)Hunger
d)Sleeping late at night
3) Four things that make the face looking dull and haggard:-
a)Lying
b)Being disrespectful/impudent (knowingly)
c) Baseless arguements
d)Excessive immorality (committing sins without fear)
4) Four things that make the face glow and shine:-
a) Piety
b) Loyalty
c) Generosity and kindness
d)Helpful to others without being asked
5) Four things make the Rizqi (Sustenance) stop:-
a) Sleeping till late in the morning (from Fajr to sunrise)
b) Not Performing Fardhu or Irregular in Prayers
c) Laziness/Idleness
d) Treachery/Dishonesty
6) Four things that bring/increase the Rizqi:-
a) Staying up in the night in prayers
b) Excessive Repentance
c) Regular Charity
d) Zikr (Remembrance of Allah)
The Holy Prophet (SAW), also said to communicate to others even if it is just One Verse (Ayaah), for this one verse will stand out on the Day of Judgment for intercession.
Allah Hu Alam.
The Holy Prophet (SAW) said,
" Stop doing everything during the Azaan, even if you are reading the Quran.
The person who talks during the Azaan will not be able to say the Kalima E Shahada on his/her death bed".
............so be careful, do not to make this mistake!!!
Please pass this message to all Muslims...
**READ THIS DU ' A FOR BETTER LIFE**
Allahumma- inni- ala- Zikr-ika -wa Shuk-rika wa husni-Ibaadatik....Ameen.
A very powerful Du ' a has been sent to you.
Imagine 1000 persons read it
just because of you..................Jazakallah.
ONLY you will seek goodness from
Allah SWT.
Cell phone vs Quran
Ever wonder what would happen if we treated our Quran like we treat
our cell phone?
What if we carried it around in our purses or pockets?
What if we flipped through it several time a day?
What if we turned back to go get it if we forgot it?
What if we used it to receive messages from the text?
What if we treated it like we couldn't live without it?
What if we gave it to kids as gifts?
What if we used it when we traveled?
What if we used it in case of emergency?
This is something to make you go....hmm...where is my Quran?
Oh, and one more thing.
Unlike our cell phone, we don't have to worry about our Quran being
Disconnected
Makes you stop and think 'where are my priorities? And no dropped calls!
P.S. DO WHAT YOU THINK GOD WOULD WANT YOU TO DO WITH THIS EMAIL
Trust in the Lord and *ASAP (Always Say A Prayer)
If you are one of the 7% who will stand up for Him, forward this.
93% of people won't forward this.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
An Oath of Working Hard And Loyalty
On this past Sunday I just reading the Urdu news paper Jang then suddenly my eyes stopped upon an advertisement title as "Oath of Hard Working & Loyalty" (Ehad Nama Baray Mehnat Aur Imandari) the advertiser named Mr. Arif Rehman resident of Lahore Pakistan stated above this oath that reason of current recession in country, salaried professionals are being under paid or jobless and uncertainty of trade of Pakistan is that people are not working with dignity and loyalty at their place of work/offices. The situation could become stable quickly if people or employees will work at their work places with dignity & loyalty. So for the sake of a bright future it is important to take oath from general public that they will perform their duties at their offices and other places of work with diligently and hard working. Advertiser also requested to the readers of this advertise to spread the copies of this advertisement in areas where the readers live and among their friend circle and other communities.
I don't know about anyone that what he will think after reading this advertisement but after reading this ad I often observe in offices that people engage in conversations and chatting rather then performing their duties, in those office where employer provides the service of internet people/employees use to engage browsing video and other entertaining sites and playing games on net rather then browsing any creative or knowledgeable material. So in this context Mr. Arif Rehman is doing a good job in fact I use to say that he is doing Jihad-bil-Qalam because to jog the people from illiteracy is the demand of time, and Mr. Arif is doing the same job. I am trying to search that Oath Ad if I found then I will publish/share here.
I don't know about anyone that what he will think after reading this advertisement but after reading this ad I often observe in offices that people engage in conversations and chatting rather then performing their duties, in those office where employer provides the service of internet people/employees use to engage browsing video and other entertaining sites and playing games on net rather then browsing any creative or knowledgeable material. So in this context Mr. Arif Rehman is doing a good job in fact I use to say that he is doing Jihad-bil-Qalam because to jog the people from illiteracy is the demand of time, and Mr. Arif is doing the same job. I am trying to search that Oath Ad if I found then I will publish/share here.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
My Random Practice
Hi and welcome to my blog, I've created this blog so that I can tell the world about my random thoughts, feelings, anger and what ever I think about any thing.
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